Kroy Biermann accuses ‘narcissist’ Kim Zolciak of ‘f***ng other men’ and says their lives ‘are over’ in explosive bodycam footage of screaming match after one of their young kids called the police

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Written By Maya Cantina
  • Police bodycam footage shows a wild-eyed Kroy Biermann arguing with officers 
  • Zolciak claimed that he wouldn’t let her leave the house and blocked her car
  • She said she escaped on foot in her bathrobe and called for help from neighbors 

A disturbing verbal fight between Kim Zolciak and her estranged husband Kroy Biermann is now coming into focus with the release of police bodycam footage.

Video recorded at the scene of a fight from November shows Biermann screaming at the 45-year-old former Real Housewives Of Atlanta star has officers arrive to break up the argument.

In the footage, obtained by TMZ on Wednesday, the 38-year-old former NFL player accuses his estranged wife of being a ‘narcissist,’ and he even shouts that she has been ‘f***ing other men.’

The video clips offer new context to the shouting match, which was so intense that one of couple’s four youngest children called 911 for help. 

A wild-eyed Biermann can be seen complaining about his ex and insulting her as he speaks with a responding officer, and he appears unable to calm himself even after law enforcement arrives.

Video from a verbal fight at Kim Zolciak, 45, and Kroy Bierman’s Georgia home in November that was obtained by TMZ on Wednesday shows a wild-eyed Kroy, 38, accusing his estranged wife of ‘f***ing other men’ and arguing with police officers

The bodycam video opens with an officer arriving at the couple’s house in Milton, Georgia, which they put on the market for $6 million in October in homes of escaping foreclosure.

He walks briskly and arrives at the home’s garage, where Kroy can be seen leaning in toward the driver-side window of a white range rover while Kim sits in it with the lights on.

When the officer asks what is happening between the two, Biermann replies in an almost cheery tone: ‘We’re just having an argument.’ 

When quizzed about it, he says the argument is about ‘our f***ing life!’ while raising his hands in the air.

‘It’s destroyed!’ he continues, again flapping his arms up in the air.

When the officer, who sounded flustered at Kroy’s tone, asked what had precipitated the fight, the former athlete blamed it on ‘her inability to f***ing solve problems, or address them, or do anything!’ 

At the time, the two were standing in the middle of the drive, close to where Kim was parked, but the officer began walking back and asked Biermann to follow him.

‘Why?!’ shot back the exasperated reality star, before the officer explained that he wanted them to talk away from Zolciak. 

The fight, which led one of their youngest children to call 911, appeared to start after Kroy allegedly prevented Kim from leaving their home because he wanted to discuss their impending divorce, which Kim claimed he wanted to call off; seen in 2016 in LA

The fight, which led one of their youngest children to call 911, appeared to start after Kroy allegedly prevented Kim from leaving their home because he wanted to discuss their impending divorce, which Kim claimed he wanted to call off; seen in 2016 in LA

‘I don’t want her to start screaming at you and have a whole argument,’ he said, though Kim had yet been seen or heard on the bodycam footage.

Kroy took two steps forward before pointing at the Range Rover and yelling, ‘It’s nothing but an act! It’s all a bunch of bulls***!’

He clarified that he was referring to ‘everything [Zolciak] does.’

‘I’m not doing this!‘ he continued, gesturing toward the police officer and seemingly indicating that he didn’t want to unpack months worths of disagreements in the moment.

‘This is narcissistic behavior! I’m not doing this,’ he added, while Kim could be heard shouting inaudibly from her vehicle.

Then Kroy appeared to get upset that the officer was even on the scene.

‘There’s nothing to do! You shouldn’t even be here! Who called you?’ he said while flapping his arms up and down.

‘Your kids,’ the officer replied, adding that it was probably someone inside the house, though he didn’t say which child had made the call for help.

‘What kid?!’ Kroy responded, before adding that he and Kim had been ‘outside the whole time.’ 

When the officer tried to get Kroy to explain why he was getting ‘so heated,’ he didn’t turn down the temperature at all but instead repeated, ‘Because our life is destroyed!’

He then paused for a couple seconds with his eyes wide and his mouth hanging open while he held his arms stretched straight out to his sides.

‘What don’t you understand?!’ he asked aggressively.

‘There’s no money! There’s no house! We’re getting divorced one day, we’re not the next! She’s f***ing other men! What do you want?!’ he continued screaming as his voice sounded increasingly raw. 

In an intense argument with an officer in the driveway, Kroy called Kim a 'narcissist' and said their lives were 'destroyed' because of her; still from Don't Be Tardy

In an intense argument with an officer in the driveway, Kroy called Kim a ‘narcissist’ and said their lives were ‘destroyed’ because of her; still from Don’t Be Tardy

After the exasperated officer urged him to ‘calm down,’ Biermann shouted: ‘Calm down?! I don’t have a f***ing life!’

He continued shouting and began pacing, leading the officer to tell him to ‘calm down’ again.

After a cut in the video, Biermann is no longer seen, though it’s unclear where he went. The officer then walks back to the Range Rover to get Kim’s take on the night’s screaming match.

‘He’s just been screaming at me for, like, two hours like a crazy person,’ Kim said as she started to weep.

‘I just said I wanted to get a divorce, I just wanted it to be over,’ she continued as she wiped at her eyes with her hands.

She went on to accuse Kroy of not letting her ‘leave this morning,’ claiming that the gate to their driveway had broken, requiring one to manually open it, but she said Kroy stood in front of it and blocked her from leaving.

She added that she had ‘all these videos’ of that alleged encounter.

Kim said she ‘finally got out of the gate’ on foot and said she was walking down the street ‘in my robe,’ where she proceeded to scream for help in hopes that her neighbors might intervene.

She accused Kroy of following her and ‘screaming’ in her ear and pulling on the back of her robe as she tried to walk away.

‘I mentally and physically and emotionally can not take this any longer,’ she told the officer while covering her face with her hands.

She said Kroy tried to prevent their children from seeing the argument by telling them to ‘get out of the house’ when they were arguing indoors, before allegedly telling them to get back in the house as soon as she tried to go outside where they were.

Then Kim explained that she was sitting in her car with the window down because it was the ‘only place’ where she felt ‘safe.’

Kim sat in her car for much of the confrontation. She later alleged that Kroy blocked her from driving out of their home's gate. She claimed she escaped on foot in her bathrobe and screamed for help from their neighbors while Kroy followed her; still from Don't Be Tardy

Kim sat in her car for much of the confrontation. She later alleged that Kroy blocked her from driving out of their home’s gate. She claimed she escaped on foot in her bathrobe and screamed for help from their neighbors while Kroy followed her; still from Don’t Be Tardy

She claimed she had been talking to one of their sons through the window, but then Kroy had allegedly interceded and stuck his arm in the way to prevent her from closing the driver-side window.

But the chat was interrupted when Zolciak asked what Biermann was doing and noted that he was ‘yelling.’

The officer said he was speaking with another officer, but then he started walking toward where Biermann was again losing his cool.

He started running as soon as the shouts from the front entrance of the home became more audible.

Biermann could then be seen arguing with three other officers — who were accompanied by a K-9 unit — in the foyer, and other voices that sounded as if they belonged to children could be heard shouting indistinctly in the background.

‘Sir, I did not give you authorization to be in my home,’ the Don’t Be Tardy star said, adding, ‘I know my rights.’

But one of the other officers, clearly frustrated, told him to ‘stop talking,’ and explained: ‘We’re here for a lawful reason … to investigate a domestic violence situation.’

Kroy tried to interject that ‘the person is outside,’ seemingly suggesting that there couldn’t be an issue if that was the case,’ but the officer continued: ‘Your kids are the ones that called! I need to talk to them!’

Kroy then said he could ‘bring them outside’ but again said the officers didn’t have the ‘authority’ to be in his home.

Part of the video cuts out then, but the police appeared to have been able to speak with the children.

Bodycam footage from another office shows him walking back out to speak to Kim, presumably while the others were dealing with Kroy in the house.

She was now standing next to her SUV with a bottle of water and some of her possessions placed on the hood while she took a phone call.

The officer asked for her side of the fight again, and she quickly told the person on the other end of the line that she would call them back.

 The officer reiterated that the children said she and her estranged husband had been arguing, and he said one of the male children said ‘he thought he saw something [turn physical],’ before the officer said it sounded to him as if Kroy was just trying to put his hand out to separate them.

Kim didn’t seem to suggest that Kroy had harmed her, but instead held her arm out and mimed her ex allegedly trying to stop her from leaving through their gate.

She reiterated that she got free and walked down the road in her bathrobe, which she said made her look like an ‘idiot.

She claimed Kroy was screaming, ‘I don’t give a f*** about the neighbors, you dumb b****!’

‘He was screaming in my ears,’ she continued as she started to sob again.

Kim said that Kroy had changed his mind and 'doesn't want the divorce' anymore. She also hinted that she had accused her ex of stealing her jewelry; seen on Watch What Happens Live

Kim said that Kroy had changed his mind and ‘doesn’t want the divorce’ anymore. She also hinted that she had accused her ex of stealing her jewelry; seen on Watch What Happens Live

‘He doesn’t want the divorce. That’s the problem,’ Kim claimed, although it was Kroy who initially filed for divorce.

Although it was only briefly mentioned in the clip, the officer also seemed to reference a complaint about Biermann taking Zolciak’s jewelry.

‘So y’all were arguing over the jewelry tonight?’ he began, but Kim replied, ‘No, no, no, no, he stole the jewelry. I just had to let it go,’ she said.

In recent weeks, the reality star has been putting up her luxury clothes and accessories for sale to her Instagram fans for several hundred dollars a pop, and she has even listed some of Biermann’s designer sneakers, but it’s unclear if she has attempted to sell jewelry on Instagram.

Kim claimed that the argument started earlier that morning when Kroy allegedly told her, ‘This is your last chance to have a conversation.’

‘I said, “I don’t want to have a conversation,”‘ she continued. ‘”I just want a divorce. I don’t want to do this, just leave me alone.”‘

Then she clarified for the officer that it was Kroy who allegedly ‘didn’t want the divorce.’

Kim’s voice started to crack as she shared how disturbing she found Kroy’s alleged personality change.

‘This person that I’m dealing with right now is not the same person that I married,’ she said through tears, ‘So it’s been hard for me to make a decision because it’s so sad.’

A final bodycam clip showed Kroy back out on the driveway, which was considerably darker without the illumination from Kim’s headlights.

He still sounded agitated as he spoke to one of the officers that he had been arguing about over entering his home, but he was clearly more subdued than he was at the height of the confrontation and he lowered his voice.

Kroy wouldn’t say what had started the argument, claiming it was sparked by ‘nothing’ and again stressing that it was a ‘verbal argument.’

Kim's voice cracked as she shared how disturbing she found Kroy's alleged personality change. 'This person that I'm dealing with right now is not the same person that I married,' she said tearfully. 'So it's been hard for me to make a decision because it's so sad'; seen in 2019

Kim’s voice cracked as she shared how disturbing she found Kroy’s alleged personality change. ‘This person that I’m dealing with right now is not the same person that I married,’ she said tearfully. ‘So it’s been hard for me to make a decision because it’s so sad’; seen in 2019

The officer tried to question him about whether he had followed Kim from room to room while they were arguing, but Kroy didn’t appear to be offering up information easily.

‘Listen, no lines have been crossed,’ the officer said, explaining that he was just trying to get statements to investigate as he seemingly tried to get Biermann to be less defensive.

‘There’s no reason! You guys don’t even need to be here,’ Biermann replied. ‘This is trauma drama!’

The officer continued: ‘I’m just trying to get to the bottom —’

‘The bottom is, there was a verbal argument. That’s it. There’s nothing to figure out,’ Kroy interrupted.

The two started to argue and the officer told Biermann to stop interrupting before the video cuts out again.

As it resumes, the officer operating the body cam says he can’t here the football player now that they are further away, so Kroy shouts that only ‘about 10 percent of what [Kim] says actually happened, if that.’

Then the previous officer that Kroy had been arguing with told him that Zolciak would be going inside the house.

‘She’s going to grabs some things, she’s gonna get in her car and she’s gonna leave,’ he informed Biermann.

He said Kim said she wasn’t going to be coming back that night, though the officer also seemed to allude to a previous visit to the home that ‘didn’t work out so well.’

‘You leave it be, OK?’ he told Kroy.

‘Sure,’ replied the athlete in a defeated tone as the video appeared to end. 

It was previously reported that Kim and Kroy had an 'extremely loud' verbal fight, which scared one of the young kids enough to call 911, though officers didn't say who had called

It was previously reported that Kim and Kroy had an ‘extremely loud’ verbal fight, which scared one of the young kids enough to call 911, though officers didn’t say who had called

It’s not clear which of their children phoned for help, but the sources noted that it was one of their four younger children, which would rule out Kim’s older children Brielle, 26, and Ariana, 22, both of whom are from previous relationships.

The exes also share sons KJ, 12; Kash, 11; and fraternal twins Kane and Kaia, nine, one of whom reportedly called the police.

The shocking incident, which appears to be just one of several times that Kim and Kroy have had the police visit them since their messy separation began, came just over a week after they put their differences aside for a celebratory anniversary dinner.

Law enforcement sources previously told TMZ that three police officers and a supervisor dropped by the estranged couple’s home, where a judge has ordered them to sleep on separate floors. 

They said Kim and Kroy were engaged in an ‘extremely loud’ verbal fight, which appears to have scared one of the children enough to make them phone for help breaking it up.

However, the police were able to subdue the two for the night.

Kim previously called police to their home — which they are attempting to sell for $6 million to help pay off their mounting debts — after Kroy had locked himself in the couple’s bedroom, allegedly refusing his estranged wife entry.

Once police arrived, Kroy — who refused to show his face from behind the bedroom door — handed over Kim’s medications and some cosmetics, as well as a comforter.

Kroy had again holed himself up in the bedroom in late September, when Kim again called police.

She said that the football player had taken her two cell phones in the bedroom with himself and was refusing to give them back to her.

Police ultimately got him to hand over the phones, and Kim slept in a separate bedroom with the door locked for privacy. 

The latest incident appears to be an escalation of sorts, as it was previously one of the adults who called for police during past visits, but now one of their young children has interceded. 

The children were at home during previously visits from law enforcement, though Kim claimed that they were asleep during the September visit over the allegedly stolen cell phones. 

A judge had previously ordered Kim to live in their home’s basement suite, while Kroy was allowed to stay in the master bedroom.

The arrangement was presumably meant to help give them privacy and cut down on the arguments, though both are allowed to be in their home’s common areas, including the living room and kitchen. 

Reaching out: In addition to Kim's older daughter Brielle, 26, and Ariana, 22, she and Kroy share sons KJ, 12; Kash, 11; and fraternal twins Kane and Kaia, nine, one of whom reportedly called police

Reaching out: In addition to Kim’s older daughter Brielle, 26, and Ariana, 22, she and Kroy share sons KJ, 12; Kash, 11; and fraternal twins Kane and Kaia, nine, one of whom reportedly called police

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Toning it down: According to the sources, three police officers and a supervisor dropped by the estranged couple’s home. They were able to subdue them for the night

Going all out: Despite tension between the couple and their apparent lack of resources, they reunited on their anniversary for a lavish dinner pasta and seafood dinner earlier in November

Going all out: Despite tension between the couple and their apparent lack of resources, they reunited on their anniversary for a lavish dinner pasta and seafood dinner earlier in November 

The reality star has given mixed signals about the state of her marriage. Between visits from police, she and Kroy put on a happy face to celebrate their anniversary with a fancy dinner earlier in November, and she even added her married name back to her Instagram account, despite her ongoing divorce. 

Last week, Kim even tamped down on concerns that she was selling off her designer clothing and accessories to help pay her significant debts.

After a fan asked on Instagram if she was trying to raise money, she claimed that she merely had too many things and was trying to pare them down. 

Still, financial challenges have continued to mount for the two. As they wait to see if their pricy home will sell, they have been ordered by a judge to pay $230,000 from a lawsuit over unpaid credit card bills, and Kroy has also been order to turn over his Rolls-Royce after he stopped making the $5,000 monthly payments for over a year.

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